
Hello, beautiful souls,
Welcome to my world.

I’m Bubs Buselli
Your guide through the realms of love magic, and the beautifully imperfect dance of relationships.


like human MDMA!”
— Layla Martin
“Bubs is a heart opener—

Hello, beautiful souls,
Your guide through the realms of love magic, and the beautifully imperfect dance of relationships.
Inviting you into the mosaic of my journey—where smiles meet adventures, and vulnerability is both teacher and dance floor.
In the tapestry of my diverse journey, I've explored various identities – from an anthropology college student to a BFA photography graduate capturing high fashion in NYC's energetic streets.
I've been a free-spirited transient, navigated the journey from addict to sobriety, tended to the earth as a food and medicine farmer, embraced the mystical path of a witchy herbalist, and started an ethical chocolate business.
Every chapter has contributed to shaping my authentic self through resilience and adaptability.
I thrive in tending to the flames of joy and the whispers of grief alike.
Whether dancing in nature's seductive embrace as an eco-sensual soul or being captivated by the unexpected connection of a perfect stranger sharing their deepest heartbreak, my journey is a celebration of the beauty in every moment.
"My life's work is to honor the great beauty all around you." -YAIMA
Aching self-doubt emerged as a poignant force, ultimately serving as a catalyst for recognizing and embracing the brilliance within.
Wrestling with body shame and befriending the inner lion tamer that once kept me confined, I underwent a profound metamorphosis.
Transitioning from timidity to proudly prancing in empowering attire alongside my mentor Layla Martin while supporting at her global tantric retreats.
Now, my mission is to guide others on their journey to embody their bold, empowered, and love-infused selves, especially during life's most challenging moments.
It's a unique superpower of mine—helping individuals fall deeply in love with themselves.
Sexual assault, partner violence, deep depression, pregnancy loss, and the gripping grasp of addiction.
These trials, although initially tumultuous, became catalysts for me to lean into life with unwavering determination. While they may have complicated my path to pleasure, they have also sculpted the resilient woman I proudly love today.
Embracing these experiences as a path of healing makes the outcome even sweeter.
These encounters have not only fostered my personal growth but have also ignited a profound empathy for the intricate and potent journeys we all navigate.
Life is a dance, and at times we step on each other's toes. But sometimes, the missteps take us back home to ourselves in ways we couldn’t have planned.
My vulnerability is the wellspring of my authenticity, the source of my empathy, and the bridge that connects me to you.
— Layla Martin
“Bubs is a heart opener—
Where we explore your story, magnificence, and gifts.
Let's navigate the realms of fulfilling, authentic, and sustaining relationships with yourself, others, and the natural world. It all comes down to relationships, and when love boldly enters the equation, the possibilities are endless.
With love, openness, and a sprinkle of magic,
Bubs